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It's Not You

How to Identify and Heal from Narcissistic People

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Brought to you by Penguin.

REDISCOVER WHO YOU ARE AFTER YEARS OF INVALIDATION.

Dealing with a narcissist is hard. One day their confidence and charisma pull you in, the next day they gaslight, wreck your self-confidence, and leave you wondering what you could have done differently. Clinical Psychologist and narcissism expert Dr Ramani is here to help. Drawing on more than 20 years of studying, teaching and helping people navigate the challenging landscape of narcissism, you’ll learn how to:

  • Spot the tell-tale signs of a narcissist
  • Confront toxic cycles
  • Protect your energy
  • Create realistic boundaries
  • Reclaim and embrace your true self

Packed with expert tips and detailed advice, this book will equip you with the tools to stop blaming yourself, regain your power, heal, and take back your life.

©2024 Ramani Durvasula (P)2024 Penguin Audio Abuse Dysfunctional Families Love & Romance Mental Health Parenting Personality Disorders Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Self-Esteem Self-Help

Critic Reviews

“A compassionate roadmap and survival guide for people in narcissistic relationships, helping them understand how to heal and thrive during and after these challenging relationships.” - Jay Shetty
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Thank you Thank you Thank you. Dr. Ramini. You help so many decode the journey to decode and heal.

This book can save your life.

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Dr. Ramani has excavated and built a safe space for all sufferers of narcissistic abuse, where others have not even dared to venture.

She lays out all the excuses and devaluating behavior that the reality of what it is to suffer in these kinds of relationships.

This should be on the must listen/read list of anyone looking for resources to educate themselves about how to overcome and reach the other side

A must for anyone who suffers from self doubt

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I found it very useful and helpful in my journey towards knowledge and healing.

A must for people stuck in narcissistic relationships.

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A must go-to book for anyone struggling with harnful relationships in life, and wanting to understand and heal from them.
A sincere thanks to Dr. Ramani for all her work towards this cause. So many of us need to hear this. It couldn't be written better.
The reading is poignant and brings the words to life almost perfectly.

ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS EVER

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This book gives you strength and as it starts from her self experiences gives the author the authenticity and further being a professional she has been very kind but clear for certain misconceptions and false hopes which people may have developed imagining one day everything will be alright
For me as I relate with the section when you have to stay in such a relationship was really helpful. Thank You Doctor Ramani.

The practical approach and nowhere giving you false hope of everything will be alright touched me for the honesty of the author.

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