Between Over & Next

Written by: Robert Allen & Holli Ehrlich
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  • Welcome to "Between Over & Next", the podcast where married couple Holli and Robert will inspire you to live more mindfully and find joy in the present moment. Join them on their journey as they discuss the challenges, rewards, and the culmination of everything wonderful and spectacular in love, life, family, and business. In each episode, they share ideas, insights, and personal stories highlighting decades of valuable lessons learned personally and professionally. They also interview experts and thought leaders to gain a deeper understanding of how to embrace what you’re passionate about doing, and then never stop doing it. Whether you're looking to reduce fear, take more risks, settle less, increase happiness, or simply learn how to experience a more fulfilling life, "Between Over & Next" has something for everyone. So, tune in and join Holli and Robert as they explore the space between what was, what is, and what's to come.
    2024
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Economics Leadership Relationships Social Sciences
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Episodes
  • The Interplay of Hindsight, Foresight, and Insight for Personal Growth

    The Interplay of Hindsight, Foresight, and Insight for Personal Growth
    Nov 19 2024

    Immerse yourself in this insightful episode of ‘Between Over & Next’ as Holli and Robert explore how foresight and hindsight can enrich and transform our lives. With their trademark humor and thoughtfulness, the couple emphasizes the importance of how learning from the past and living fully in the present can inform more intentional decision-making in the future.

    Holli and Robert discuss various life themes, such as career choices, parenting, health, financial decisions, and relationships, using foresight and hindsight as lenses to better understand them. They share personal anecdotes and insights to encourage listeners to embrace life’s unpredictability by building resilience, maintaining optimism, and creating a personal legacy for future generations. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on balancing past experiences with forward-looking aspirations.

    In This Episode

    0:00 Exploring Foresight and Hindsight in Life's Journey
    3:01 The Rear View Mirror
    4:17 The Interplay of Hindsight, Foresight, and Insight
    6:19 Reflecting on Life Choices and Their Long-Term Impact
    9:31 Ask Yourself What Relationships Taught You About Yourself
    11:04 The Importance of Saving and Financial Responsibility
    13:17 Embracing What Lies Ahead
    14:52 Leaving A Legacy
    15:48 Empowering Youth and Lifelong Parenting Responsibilities
    17:25 Present Moments for Long-Term Fulfillment and Gratitude
    19:50 Know What to Hold On To and What to Leave Behind
    22:08 It's Never Too Late to Learn or Try Something New
    23:53 Hindsight is a Teacher, Foresight is a Motivator, The Present is a Canvas for Change

    Key Takeaways

    • Foresight and hindsight are powerful tools that can guide us in navigating life's transitions and uncertainties.
    • Reflecting on past experiences can provide insights that inform better decisions and foster personal growth.
    • Embracing life stages with an attitude of gratitude creates a sense of fulfillment and empowers resilience.
    • Building a personal legacy involves intentional actions and imparting wisdom to younger generations.
    • Being present in the moment is crucial for appreciating life's journey and harnessing the full potential of foresight and hindsight.

    Holli & Robert Quotes

    "The beauty of hindsight is that it reveals the masterpiece that life has painted, brushstroke by brushstroke, with each decision."
    "You can gain more foresight from other people's hindsight."
    "Your past can equal the strength for your present."
    "Foresight is not about controlling the future. It's about shaping ourselves to meet it with grace."
    "Foresight is not about prediction, but about positioning ourselves for what might be."
    "Empowering youth is an obligation… educating others is something we should strive to do."
    "Be open to taking that information in so that it can help you make decisions in the future."
    "Ask yourself what one habit could you adopt today that the future you will be grateful for?"
    "Embrace your past, look forward with hope, fully engage in today."
    "Being in the present moment is a gift."
    "Your heart has only so much room, so make sure it's filled with things that feed your soul."

    Mentioned In Episode 45

    ‘Between Over & Next’ Episode 43: The Metaphorical Concept of The Traffic Lights of Life

    ‘Between Over & Next’ Episode 3: The Meaning Of “Between Over & Next”

    ‘Between Over & Next’ Episode 44: From Publishing Prestige to Coaching Clarity: Leadership Lessons & Life Pivots

    ‘Between Over & Next’ Episode 4: Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey
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    27 mins
  • From Publishing Prestige to Coaching Clarity: Leadership Lessons & Life Pivots

    From Publishing Prestige to Coaching Clarity: Leadership Lessons & Life Pivots
    Nov 12 2024
    In this episode of ‘Between Over & Next’," hosts Holli and Robert reconnect with Amy Wilkins, formerly of Martha Stewart Weddings, as she shares her journey from publishing exec to leadership coach. Amy shares her vibrant journey from the bustling world of publishing with giants like Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia and Smithsonian Media to becoming a sought-after leadership coach. Listeners will gain insight into Amy’s decision-making processes as she navigated career pivots, driven by her desire for growth and leadership empowerment. Her narrative weaves through deeply personal experiences and significant professional transitions leading to a rewarding career dedicated to coaching others through their professional crossroads. Amy discusses pivotal moments that influenced her career trajectory, such as dealing with leadership changes and economic downturns while at Martha Stewart, and ultimately realizing her passion for coaching. With her profound understanding of the "messy middle"—a term she uses to describe a particularly challenging phase in one's career—Amy is determined to aid others in not only surviving but thriving during transitional periods. Throughout the episode, Holli, Robert, and Amy emphasize the importance of choosing a fulfilling path, remaining adaptable, and leveraging personal experiences for professional growth. Amy's story is a testament to the power of choice, resilience, and strategic career transitions in the space between what was, what is, and what’s next. In This Episode 0:00 Career Pivots and Leadership Insights with Amy Wilkins4:26 Career Growth and Adaptability in the Publishing Industry8:20 Navigating Career Challenges and Personal Growth Amid Adversity18:19 Career Transitions and Leadership in Media Organizations24:39 Empowering Women in the Messy Middle Through Leadership Coaching32:34 Listening to Your Body's Warnings on Life's Journey34:29 Navigating Life's Transitions with Purpose and Contribution Key Takeaways Amy Wilkins transitioned from a successful career in media and publishing to leadership coaching, driven by her passion for empowering others.The "messy middle" is a critical phase in a career with increased responsibility, where Amy provides coaching to help navigate this complex period.Amy advocates for listening to personal intuition and recognizing when it's time for a professional pivot.Leadership and empowerment are central themes in Amy’s approach, encouraging professionals to embrace change and growth.Amy helps individuals incorporate mindfulness into their daily routines for professional and personal development. Amy Wilkins Quotes "What if I could choose awe, wonder, and curiosity in every moment, regardless of how the world is operating around me?""Every situation, no matter what can be looked at like a gift or an opportunity.""I always loved empowering them… I like to let people's creativity flourish.""For me, it's all about the people in my life…the moments where I got to be deeply connected with the people that I meet.""I think what I was noticing is that I have a need to support and help others. It's like a burning need inside of me.""Even if I had told my younger self some of those things, she probably would have been like, what are you talking about?""Your body's going to tell you stuff that you didn't even know you needed to hear." About Amy Wilkins, Founder of Choose Awe LLC Messy Middle Mindset Coach Amy Wilkins established her coaching practice to empower women navigating the complex “messy middle” of their careers. With an impressive 35-year background in media sales, including senior sales and marketing roles at iconic brands like Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia and Smithsonian Media, Amy brings unique insight into leadership and transformation. She earned her ACC through the International Coaching Federation and is also a Positive Intelligence Coach. Amy gives her time to America Needs You, an organization supporting first-generation college students. In addition, she is connected to She Runs It having served on the board for 10 years (not consecutively) and continues to participate in the Mentoring program, something she has done for over a decade. Amy lives in New Jersey with her husband, daughter, and granddaughter. She loves spending time with family (including extended) and considers cooking in the kitchen the best kind of therapy. Most of the time, everyone wins! Amy also loves being outdoors in nature and often schedules “walking” calls with the people in her life.
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    40 mins
  • The Metaphorical Concept of The Traffic Lights of Life

    The Metaphorical Concept of The Traffic Lights of Life
    Nov 5 2024

    In this engaging episode of 'Between Over and Next', listeners are taken on a metaphorical drive as hosts Holli and Robert interpret life's transitions through the lens of traffic lights and use the common symbols of red, yellow, and green traffic lights to illustrate the phases of life—between, over, and next.

    The discussion opens up on how we navigate the red (stop), yellow (proceed with caution), and green (go) moments in our personal and professional journeys. The episode encourages mindfulness and reflection at life's intersections, advocating for a balance between patience and action when confronted with life's unexpected changes and challenges. Engage with Holli and Robert as they share rich insights into embracing life's pauses, seizing opportunities to redefine purpose, and the importance of adaptability amidst change.

    In This Episode

    0:00 Exploring Life's Metaphors Through Between, Over, and Next Moments
    2:14 Each Light Color Signifies an Empowering Message
    6:14 The Gift of Life's Pauses to Rethink Direction and Purpose
    11:30 Adapting Event Planning Amidst Covid and Cannabis Challenges
    13:21 Trust the Direction, Be Willing to Pivot, Be Open to Detours
    15:08 Balance Ambition with Patience and Adjust as Needed
    16:04 A Green, Red, or Yellow Light Could Lead You to a Rewarding New Direction
    18:00 The Importance of Effective Billboard Advertising
    19:57 We Encounter Many Traffic Lights Throughout Our Day, Both Literally and Metaphorically

    Key Takeaways

    • Traffic Light Metaphor: Red lights indicate moments to stop and reflect, yellow lights suggest proceeding with caution, and green lights inspire bold action and movement forward.
    • Life's Pauses are Powerful: Red light moments in life, like relationship endings or career changes, serve as crucial times for reassessment and preparation for new beginnings.
    • Navigating the In-Between: Yellow light stages represent times of uncertainty where clarity is gained, offering the chance to redefine purpose before transitioning to the next stage.
    • Boldness in Transition: Green lights invite individuals to step out of their comfort zones and embrace new paths, ready for life's surprises and detours.
    • Balancing and Supporting: Effective navigation between these stages requires a balance of ambition and patience and the importance of supporting one another at life's crossroads.

    Holli & Robert Quotes

    "In life, just as on the road, signals show us when it's time to shift our approach, stop, slow down, or go."
    "These signals don't always appear in order… sometimes green turns yellow or red without warning."
    "The idea of the traffic light has so many interpretations for life…"
    "Trust your intuition as to when it might be right to accelerate through a yellow or to slow down and stop and wait for that red light to change."

    Mentioned in Episode 43
    'Between Over & Next' Episode 40: Slow Down, Reflect, and Rise: The Gift of Life’s Pauses
    'Between Over & Next' Episode 3: The Meaning Of “Between Over & Next”
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    23 mins

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