Episodes

  • Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship

    Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship
    Dec 11 2024
    In this episode, we dive into the topic of physical intimacy and how it plays a crucial role in our relationship. We open up about how often we need it, the highs and lows of our sex drives, and how we’ve learned to balance and meet each other’s needs. We also get real about the challenges—what happens when one of us feels like it’s not enough or when the dynamic starts to feel one-sided. Join us for an honest and vulnerable conversation about keeping the connection strong and the passion alive.
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    17 mins
  • Bottoming Should Be Fun

    Bottoming Should Be Fun
    Nov 27 2024
    On this episode, the couple dives deep into the art of maximizing your experience as a bottom. From preparation tips and mindset shifts to their favorite techniques for enhancing pleasure, they share honest, uncensored advice based on their own experiences. They also discuss how communication, trust, and self-awareness can elevate your confidence in the bedroom, ensuring every moment feels empowering and satisfying. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or exploring for the first time, Koaty and Sumner provide practical, relatable insights to help you take your bottoming game to the next level.
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    21 mins
  • How Doing SeanCody Affected Our Relationship

    How Doing SeanCody Affected Our Relationship
    Nov 20 2024
    In this episode, Koaty and Sumner dive into the complexities of life as a gay couple in the spotlight. They discuss navigating the highs and lows of being a social media duo, their experiences filming threesomes and exploring studio adult content with SeanCody, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional dynamics. Reflecting on their hardest year together, they open up about mental health struggles and the steps they’ve taken to strengthen their relationship, offering an intimate look at love, resilience, and growth.
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    29 mins
  • Erectile Dysfunction: Myths, Causes & Real Talk on Aging & Intimacy

    Erectile Dysfunction: Myths, Causes & Real Talk on Aging & Intimacy
    Nov 13 2024
    Hey everyone, it’s Koaty and Sumner, and on this episode, we’re getting real (and a little cheeky) about something that affects way more people than you’d think: erectile dysfunction! We’re diving into ED myths, true-or-false games, and some fun facts that you probably haven’t heard before. Whether you’re curious, concerned, or just here for the laughs, we’ve got you covered with a mix of humor and honesty as we tackle the reality of ED at any age.

    We discuss everything from the surprising causes of ED (spoiler alert: it’s not just about age!) to ways to keep the spark alive even when things don’t go as planned. You’ll hear our take on physical vs. mental causes of ED, the stigma that still surrounds it, and why a little humor can go a long way in handling those awkward moments. Plus, we’ve got a true-or-false quiz that’ll surprise you with some strange but true ED facts—like whether or not tight underwear or bad sleep habits really make a difference.

    So grab your partner (or your earbuds!) and join us as we unpack erectile dysfunction in a way that’s open, fun, and totally judgment-free. From how lifestyle changes impact sexual health to the importance of communication and confidence, we’re covering it all right here, in bed, with Koaty and Sumner. Whether you’re just curious or looking for ways to support someone, this episode will have you laughing, learning, and seeing ED in a whole new light. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if you enjoyed it!
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    30 mins
  • How We Chose the Perfect Wedding Venue

    How We Chose the Perfect Wedding Venue
    Nov 6 2024
    We are beyond excited to share that we’ve officially chosen Villa de Amore as the perfect venue for our wedding! In this video, we’re taking you inside our wedding planning process as a gay couple, sharing all the details about why this venue spoke to us and how we’re organizing every step to create our dream LGBTQ+ wedding. If you’re looking for wedding tips or need help managing wedding stress, this is the video for you! From choosing wedding decor and deciding on non-negotiables for our special day to figuring out how to balance wedding traditions with modern wedding ideas, we’re diving into every aspect of making this day unique. We’ll talk about how we’re preparing for potential surprises, dividing up the tasks, and keeping our vision clear amidst the challenges of wedding organization. Planning a wedding can be stressful, but we’re here to show you how we’ve made it a fun and personal experience that reflects our personalities. Whether you’re planning a destination wedding, looking for wedding inspiration as a couple, or just interested in following our wedding journey, this video will give you all the behind-the-scenes action! Get ready to hear our take on everything from wedding day preparation to crafting personalized wedding details, and balancing the excitement with the occasional wedding stress management. If you’re planning a gay wedding or just love watching wedding vlogs, be sure to tune in! Send us your own unique wedding ideas and suggestions in the comments, and let’s celebrate this exciting chapter together!
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    35 mins
  • Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy

    Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy
    Oct 23 2024
    We’re Koaty and Sumner Blayne, a gay couple engaged and building our dream life together. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequently asked questions we get—how do we make an ‘open-ish’ relationship work? For us, the answer is simple: we’re emotionally monogamous but sexually open. We’ve figured out how to maintain deep love and trust while embracing freedom and exploration. Being in the adult industry and managing our relationship means navigating a unique dynamic that works perfectly for us.

    We’ve been through the ups and downs of figuring out boundaries, handling jealousy, and prioritizing emotional connection. This episode gives you an honest look at how we balance our sexual openness while keeping our emotional foundation strong. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy or just want to know more about how we live our lives, we’re answering all your burning questions and sharing our biggest tips for anyone considering an open relationship.

    Come join us for this raw and real discussion about love, sex, trust, and everything in between.
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    31 mins
  • DeBunking Stigmas About Gay Porn Stars

    DeBunking Stigmas About Gay Porn Stars
    Oct 16 2024
    In this episode, we’re diving into some of the biggest stigmas surrounding the porn industry that we’ve faced personally. There’s a lot of misunderstanding and judgment out there, and we want to set the record straight. From misconceptions about relationships and intimacy to the stereotypes people still cling to, we’re here to share our experiences and shed some light on what it’s really like. It’s an honest conversation about the realities of our work and the stigma that comes with it. If there’s a stigma you’re curious about, drop it in the comments—we’d love to talk about it!
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    13 mins
  • Inside Open Relationships: Gay vs. Straight in the Adult Industry – Real Talk with Kazumi & Reggie

    Inside Open Relationships: Gay vs. Straight in the Adult Industry – Real Talk with Kazumi & Reggie
    Oct 9 2024
    In this episode, Koaty and Sumner sit down with Kazumi and her boyfriend Reggie to dive deep into the dynamics of open relationships, comparing the experiences of gay vs straight couples. We explore how navigating an open relationship intersects with working in the adult content industry, sharing our own stories and tips on maintaining trust, boundaries, and communication. Whether you're curious about polyamory, open relationships, or the realities of being in adult entertainment, this candid conversation will give you an inside look into the challenges and rewards.
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    37 mins